15 Hidden Signs That She Is Secretly In Love With You

So, you're having doubts about whether your female friend is secretly in love with you? You might be onto something there. If you've noticed her acting a certain way around you, you might be one of those lucky people who have a secret admirer. Here are 15 signs that could tell you if she's in love with you. But brace yourself, because some of these signs might be a total surprise to you. Let's dive in!

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1. She gets awkward around you

You two are just friends, but there are certain weird moments you can't ignore. You can't help but notice how she gets flustered around you - she fidgets with her hands, plays with her phone, and blushes when you look her way. It's almost like she's trying to tell you something but can't find the words. But don't worry, buddy, we've got you covered. These are some of the signs that she's fallen for you, and fidgeting and blushing are definitely on the list. Another one is when she starts playing with her phone, trying to avoid eye contact. Well, maybe it's time you approached her and took things up a notch!

2. She fights with you

She fights with you, makes mean, nasty jokes about you, and yet, never really leaves you. It's always a battle of wits between the two of you. She does all of that because she's in denial and wants to do everything she can to hide her true feelings. Maybe she's secretly in love with you! But well, let's not get ahead of ourselves. It could just be her way of flirting. Who knows!

3. She responds to everything you say and do

She's always there for you, no matter what - the first one to respond to every little thing you say or do. You can always count on her for company, even in the middle of the night. It's like you hold a special place in her life, and she wants to make sure she's available whenever you need her. You feel important around her, and that's because she gives you that kind of attention. It's quite obvious that she's head over heels for you, and she's just waiting for you to make the first move. So what are you waiting for?

4. She gets hurt over reasons you don't understand

She may get hurt over reasons you don't even understand but it's not because she's emotionally unstable. She expects love back but cannot say it out loud, and she doesn't want to ruin your friendship. She'd rather stow away her true feelings and keep you in the dark than telling you how she truly feels, just to avoid rejection. It's her vulnerability that makes her more real to you and shows you how deeply she cares for you.

5. She cares a lot about what you think of her

She wants to impress you with every move she makes, and for that, your opinion of her matters the most. She wants you to think the best of her and is constantly trying to change your opinion. From dressing up a certain way to being extra friendly with your friends, she'll go to great lengths just to prove to you that she's worth your time. It's cute, it's endearing, but it can be overwhelming too. Just remember, it's because she cares about you and your thoughts. Personally, I think it's kind of sweet. Who wouldn't want to feel that kind of attention from someone they care about?

6. She shows involvement in your life

Do you ever feel like someone's watching you all the time? Well, it's not just the government anymore. Your friend, who may or may not be secretly in love with you, is watching you too. She's more interested in your life than your best friend, and wants to know everything about you. From what you eat for breakfast to the kind of people you hang out with, there's nothing she's not interested in. It might seem a bit odd, but it's a good thing if you want to explore your true feelings for her. And if not, then maybe it's time to run. Just kidding! Or am I?

7. She sends random chat messages

She's always the first one to text back and always has a quick response ready - even when it's very late at night. And oh, she always makes it sound like it was an accident, like she didn't mean to text you but it just happened. She may have even sent you a Facebook message while pretending to text someone else. The reality is that she stalks you on social media and waits for any opportunity to strike up a conversation with you. After all, there's nothing like a little late-night chat to get the heart pumping, right? But you don't need to know that. Keep playing along, buddy!

8. She laughs at the lamest jokes you crack

She laughs at all your jokes, even the lame ones that nobody else finds funny. It's an adorable charm that she has around you. She's clearly attracted to you and everything about you, even your sense of humour. It's a sign that she enjoys spending time with you and values your company. She finds you funny, interesting and wants to be around you as much as possible. Who doesn't love someone who can make them laugh?

9. She tries to catch your attention

She craves your attention and will go to any lengths to get it. So, if she doesn't take your calls one day or ditches unexpected plans, don't be fooled! It's simply because she wants you to realize how much you matter to her. She wants to see if you'll come after her and make her feel important. And when you do, she's happy to be the center of your universe, if only for a moment.

10. She shows signs of jealousy

She shows signs of jealousy if you talk to other girls, playing the classic you-don't-have-time-for-your-friends-anymore card. It's her way of telling you that she doesn't appreciate your attention being divided. To hide her true feelings, she may try to position herself as your friend who wants nothing more, but as soon as she notices you moving away, she'll start dropping hints of her true intentions. So if you notice her getting mad at you for talking to other girls, it may be a sign that she secretly loves you.

11. She tries to spend alone time with you

She tries to spend alone time with you, even in a group. She will make excuses to leave the group or drag you along for some reason, just to be alone with you. And, it's always you she chooses to accompany her. It's obvious that she wants to spend some quality time with you and get to know you better. She's interested in you as a person, and that's what makes her stand out from the rest. Just embrace it and give her a chance to know the real you!

12. She's always in your line of sight at a party

When you're at a party, you can't help but notice that she's always in your line of sight. She knows exactly where you'll be sitting, and she's always making sure she gives you enough chances to notice her, especially if she's all decked up. It's almost like she wants you to know that she's there and looking her best for you. But of course, she wouldn't want to come across as too eager, so she tries to be subtle about it. Nonetheless, there's no denying the attraction dominating her every move.

13. She acts pricey to feel important to you

Well, well, well. She wants to act all "pricey" just to feel important to you. Classic move, right? She knows she's interested but doesn't want to make it too obvious. So, she puts on her diva hat, acts all aloof and expects you to run after her. But you know what's really happening? She's just trying to get your attention and make you see her as someone you simply can't ignore. And guess what, it's working like a charm!

14. She looks at you differently

She looks at you in a way that nobody else does. You catch her staring at you often, and when you do, she quickly looks away. Her eyes follow you even when you're talking to someone else. It's like she's openly showing that she's attracted to you, but not ready to confess it yet. Her gaze says it all, and you can feel the undeniable attraction flowing through it.

15. She remembers everything you've ever said

She remembers everything you've ever said. Your favorite movie, your favorite song, the way you take your coffee, your most embarrassing moment in school, everything. Even though you barely remember half the conversations you've had, she does. You wonder if she has a photographic memory or if it's just selective memory. But it's clear that when it comes to you, she doesn't forget anything. And that's because she listens to you, she cares about you, and she is secretly in love with you.

Conclusion

Well, there you have it! These are the 15 signs that indicate she's secretly in love with you. Of course, not all of these may apply to every situation or every woman. But if you notice a majority of these signs, it's safe to say that she's definitely crushing hard on you. Remember, love can be tricky, and sometimes people don't express their feelings openly. So, keep an eye out for these signs and don't be afraid to speak up about your own feelings. Who knows? You might just end up with the love of your life!